We’re just like you,
Who thought life was pretty great-until one day, it wasn't. From the outside looking in, everything seemed perfect, but deep down, we realized how lost, confused, angry, resentful, and unhappy we actually were.
Thoughts like "This isn't what I signed up for" and "It would be so much easier if I didn't have to worry about them" became all too familiar.
At this point, you're faced with a choice: either confront the issues and work through them, or take the seemingly easier route-brushing everything under the rug, hoping it never resurfaces. The second option felt more appealing: less conflict, fewer hurt feelings. In the words of Elsa, "Conceal, don't feel, don't let it show." But deep down, we all know how that turned out-was it really the better choice?
We tried that path for a while. Don't get me wrong, we had great moments here and there. We'd experience bursts of happiness and bliss, but then something small would happen, and BAM-feelings of frustration, resentment, and contention would rise up because we weren't addressing the real issues. (Spoiler: It wasn't really about our partner, even though we thought it was.)
One night, we hit a breaking point-ready to throw in the towel and give up.
Life didn't need to feel so numb, surface-level, or complacent. We were letting others dictate our lives, and it was time to take control. We wanted a life worth living. We wanted a relationship that was honest, transparent, loving, and accepting.
We started therapy, sought advice from several people, but it all felt like "if you do this, then they should do that" kind of advice, and it was exhausting. Then, we sat down with a
relationship coach who held us accountable in ways we hadn't experienced before. They helped us question our past conditioning and provided a safe space for us to communicate without judgment or ultimatums. That's when everything started to change.
We began truly talking to each other, hearing and seeing the other side of the story we had been telling ourselves.
We finally took the time to understand what each of us was going through. We stepped back and realized there was much more going on beneath the surface. This process allowed us to rebuild not only our personal lives but our relationship as well.
Fast forward to today: I'd be lying if I said everything is always sunshine and rainbows. We're human, and that's not realistic.
Relationships, especially intimate ones, help us grow and learn more about ourselves than anything else. Of course, there are still ups and downs-without them, we wouldn't grow, and let's face it, that would be boring!
So yes, we're just like you.
We still argue about what to eat for dinner and who did the dishes last. We still have moments when we don't feel seen or heard. Sometimes, we tiptoe around sensitive topics, trying not to hurt each other's feelings. And yes, the topic of sex can still lead to frustration at times. But we know, without a doubt, that the tools and work we've embraced will change YOUR life. Why? Because they continue to change ours every single day.
Today, our relationship is built on unconditional love. We recognize that we are two individuals who've chosen to create this life together. We love each other no matter what, and we hold each other accountable to our goals and dreams, striving to be the best versions of ourselves every day. So, let us ask you the question that changed everything for us:
We want to
connect with you!
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